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Lessons from Bees

By
Muhamed

Muhamed writes from a prison in VIC.

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Prison teaches people to hold back.

To keep to themselves.

To give as little as possible.

To protect what little energy or hope they have left.

When everything feels limited – time, freedom, trust – it makes sense to think that giving more will leave you with less.

But the bee lives by a different rule.

A bee gives – all the time. It works, gathers, builds and cares for the hive. And, instead of running out, the hive grows stronger. The more the bee puts in, the more there is for everyone. The bee always gives more than it receives.

The bee’s life is like a well that refills itself.

Prison doesn’t feel like a place where this should be true. It feels like a place where helping others costs you. Where kindness can be risky. Where keeping your head down feels safer.

And sometimes that’s true.

But many people slowly learn something important: giving in the right ways doesn’t drain you. It steadies you.

Helping someone understand a task.

Keeping shared spaces calm, safe and clean.

Doing your job properly, even when no one is watching.

Listening instead of reacting.

These small actions don’t fix everything. But they change the day. They reduce tension. They give you a sense a purpose.

The more you build good, positive routines, the stronger you feel.

The more responsibility you take, the more trust you earn.

The more you contribute, the more you feel like you matter.

That’s the well filling up.

The bee doesn’t keep score. It doesn’t ask what it gets in return. It just does what keeps the hive going. And, by doing that, it becomes part of something bigger than itself.

In prison, feeling connected can make the difference between coping and breaking down. Giving – in small, careful ways – helps build that connection.

This lesson matters even more when you think about life after prison.

People who only take don’t get far for long. Trust disappears quickly. Opportunities close.

Relationships erode. Life becomes unstable.

But people who give steadily – their time, effort, reliability – slowly build lives that hold together.

Work becomes meaningful. Relations grow. Doors open.

The bee’s well never runs dry, because it is connected to others. It always gives more than it receives.

Prison can teach this in a hard but powerful way. It strips life down and asks: “What do you do when you have very little to give?”

Those who learn to give anyway often leave with more than they expected.

Because, the more they draw from that well, the more it fills.

And that kind of strength lasts well beyond the walls.

Prison teaches people to hold back.

To keep to themselves.

To give as little as possible.

To protect what little energy or hope they have left.

When everything feels limited – time, freedom, trust – it makes sense to think that giving more will leave you with less.

But the bee lives by a different rule.

A bee gives – all the time. It works, gathers, builds and cares for the hive. And, instead of running out, the hive grows stronger. The more the bee puts in, the more there is for everyone. The bee always gives more than it receives.

The bee’s life is like a well that refills itself.

Prison doesn’t feel like a place where this should be true. It feels like a place where helping others costs you. Where kindness can be risky. Where keeping your head down feels safer.

And sometimes that’s true.

But many people slowly learn something important: giving in the right ways doesn’t drain you. It steadies you.

Helping someone understand a task.

Keeping shared spaces calm, safe and clean.

Doing your job properly, even when no one is watching.

Listening instead of reacting.

These small actions don’t fix everything. But they change the day. They reduce tension. They give you a sense a purpose.

The more you build good, positive routines, the stronger you feel.

The more responsibility you take, the more trust you earn.

The more you contribute, the more you feel like you matter.

That’s the well filling up.

The bee doesn’t keep score. It doesn’t ask what it gets in return. It just does what keeps the hive going. And, by doing that, it becomes part of something bigger than itself.

In prison, feeling connected can make the difference between coping and breaking down. Giving – in small, careful ways – helps build that connection.

This lesson matters even more when you think about life after prison.

People who only take don’t get far for long. Trust disappears quickly. Opportunities close.

Relationships erode. Life becomes unstable.

But people who give steadily – their time, effort, reliability – slowly build lives that hold together.

Work becomes meaningful. Relations grow. Doors open.

The bee’s well never runs dry, because it is connected to others. It always gives more than it receives.

Prison can teach this in a hard but powerful way. It strips life down and asks: “What do you do when you have very little to give?”

Those who learn to give anyway often leave with more than they expected.

Because, the more they draw from that well, the more it fills.

And that kind of strength lasts well beyond the walls.

This
letter
was originally printed in the
May 2026
edition of About Time.

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